when some crazy shit hit me.

how many times have you gave some love to yourself today... shit, this month...if you can't love you the right way, nobody can love you the way you wanna be loved because you dont even know how you want to be loved.  you can't instruct someone else on how to love you.  How many times have you questioned the decisions you're making, or not trusted someone because, "you just aren't sure."  How many times have you asked yourself over and over if this person is the write one for you?  You have to learn how to be secure with the decisions YOU make, and learn how to trust YOURSELF before you try to LET someone into your life.  My grandma says, "Be careful who you LET into your home, so that you don't have to INVITE them out."  Your home is you, your very existence.. Your home is the air that you breathe, and your soul.  Be careful who you allow into your existence.  Trust yourself, so that when you look at the person you say you want to spend the rest of your life with, you can see a reincarnation of yourself inside of them. See God in your partner. See the value of love, and how important it is... Love yourself, so you can love others, but love others more than you love yourself...at all times keep it with you.